Meet Your Coach
Tobi — Your Guide To Joy
I'm Tobi. I've lived through breakdown — burnout, divorce, trauma, the loss of everything I thought I was. And I've lived through what opened on the other side. Not a destination. Not "I made it." A space. A way of being that's still unfolding.
I live in truth. I live in love. I let myself flow — through the mystic, through relationship, through grounded love, through what wants to emerge.
My spark radiates when I allow it. Yours does too.
The Space Between
There's a space between your wounds and your desires. Between what hurts and what calls you. Most of us live on one side or the other — stuck in pain, or chasing bliss, or bouncing between them.
What if you stopped running in either direction?
In the space between, growth happens naturally.
Not through pushing. Not through fixing.
Through presence — yours and mine, together — and the willingness to witness what's actually here.
Welcome to Your Sanctuary
This is more than coaching—it's a sacred partnership where your healing, growth, and joy become our shared mission.
SacredSpace
A space where you begin to see clearly — what's moving in you and what's blocking you. Who you are underneath the noise. Where you're actually moving toward, not where you think you should be going. Wisdom and insight emerge — not forced, but revealed. Held in love. Held in uncertainty. Truth shows itself when you're truly seen.
Presence & Witnessing
Presence is the doorway. I show up. Fully. With you. No agenda beyond what's real right now. I see what's moving. I see what's stuck. I reflect it back — not as judgment, but as awareness. That alone changes everything.
Your Expression Emerges
Your truth. Your direction. Your next step. Not because I told you — because you found it. In the space between forcing and giving up, something authentic starts to speak. This isn't a program with steps. It's a space you enter. And in that space, something in you begins to breathe again.
Tobi's Transformative Journey
I've spent 15 years as an international tech consultant, founders coach, and culture mentor — helping companies scale while keeping their soul alive.
Along the way, life gave me my own transformation. Burnout. Divorce. A complete dismantling of who I thought I was. Not a failure — a sacred crisis: stripping back to what's real.
First, I tried to fix the crisis. I walked every path — therapy, bodywork, spiritual guidance, alternative hospitals, medicine, coaching. Some of it helped. Most of it couldn't reach what was actually moving underneath.
Then came the change. Between the pain I was running from and the bliss I was chasing, I found something I hadn't expected — space. The willingness to stop fixing and start witnessing. To let what wanted to move, move. To let what wanted to emerge, emerge.
That space didn't make the darkness disappear. It made it bearable. It made it human. And somewhere inside, joy came back — not as a destination, but as something that was always there, waiting for me to stop performing and start being present.
And then — the most magical, mystical, wonderful, loving, joyful moments, beyond what I could have imagined. Not because I chased them. Because I stopped chasing.
Aligning with Your Truth
Find your Soul
We turn your crisis into a compass — to the undiscovered space that reconnects you with who you actually are. And from there, you live your authentic self and soul life.
One-on-One Coaching
1 hr 30 min • €150 / Payable with plan
Best Value
Monthly Journey
1,000
Every month
co-navigation through the crisis, unbroken momentum, and practical moves to continuously reconnect with your authentic self and shape live from there.
Valid until canceled
3 day free trial
1–2 deep-dive sessions per week
daily check-ins
real-time support
tailored tools
End the Pain Now
1 hr • Free
Get in Touch
Get to Know
A 20-minute call to listen, feel the fit, and map the first step from your crisis to your joy.
Discovery Call
20 min • Free